When You Realize You aren’t Nice Person
“CY, am I being arrogant?”
“No Di, you just inpatient and very straightforward”
“Look Di, we are human being. And it’s normal. We have a lot of emotions and in fact we dealing with it eveyday. When you are angry or even when you are extremely happy, you need to step back and take a moment to think about it, to look for the best way, don’t easily get trigger. You already pissed off inside, that’s why you need a time to think what you wanna do”.
I don’t think people understand how stressful it is to explain what’s going on in your head when you don’t even understand it yourself.
You can’t expect yourself to go from a negative mentality to a positive one overnight, but every time you correct a bad thought you are growing! So focus on your growth, not the fact that you aren’t “there” yet.
When you realize you aren’t nice person …
I know this transformation is painful, but you’re not falling apart; you’re just falling into something different, with a new capacity to be beautiful.
— William C. Hannan