When You Realize You aren’t Nice Person

“CY, am I being arrogant?”

“No Di, you just inpatient and very straightforward”

“Look Di, we are human being. And it’s normal. We have a lot of emotions and in fact we dealing with it eveyday. When you are angry or even when you are extremely happy, you need to step back and take a moment to think about it, to look for the best way, don’t easily get trigger. You already pissed off inside, that’s why you need a time to think what you wanna do”.

I don’t think people understand how stressful it is to explain what’s going on in your head when you don’t even understand it yourself.

You can’t expect yourself to go from a negative mentality to a positive one overnight, but every time you correct a bad thought you are growing! So focus on your growth, not the fact that you aren’t “there” yet.

When you realize you aren’t nice person …

I know this transformation is painful, but you’re not falling apart; you’re just falling into something different, with a new capacity to be beautiful.
— William C. Hannan

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I write because it releases all the ugliness that I could never say and all the beauty I can’t share in any other form or way.

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I write because it releases all the ugliness that I could never say and all the beauty I can’t share in any other form or way.

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